Getting Back in the Swing of Things....

I think every couple in the lifestyle takes a break every now-and-then for one reason or another. It's good for you. I mean seriously, if the thought crosses your mind there has to be a reason, its a good idea to listen to that thought. You do what you have to do, think about or discuss whatever needs to be and then at some point you decide your back in the game. After that whole process, well you start another process.... Getting back in the swing of things. Its so much fun to get back in the game when you've been gone. There is a whole new lease on your fun and so many things to look forward to. Parties, catching up with old playmates while meeting new ones as well. 

We're one of those couples that goes through ups and downs with the lifestyle, mostly because it is something that is a part of us, but not our entire life. Other things get in the way sometimes, be it family, work, the house or one of the other million possibilities, and that's quite alright with us. Some people we've met over the years, really can't understand that philosophy, but its what works for us. But I digress.....

Things have calmed down a bit in our lives and we've been missing the game. So we decided to jump back on into it. And something tells me the brakes are going to be off for a while.

Why go through the trouble?.?.?.?.?

As can very well be seen from the slow progression of this blog until recently, Duncan and I had taken a little "break" from anything lifestyle. Life had gotten to hectic with family and work that we had to let something go by the wayside for a little while. Now things have calmed down and we're getting back into the "swing" of things.

I've been trolling around the web reading various blogs on the subject of swingers and lifestyle with some of our newly re-found free time. After reading many sultry and steamy accounts of good times and philosophies on the lifestyle. I became amazed by some of the narrow minded opinions that are out there. I know that the lifestyle isn't for everyone, there are many skeptics and nay-sayers out there. But one statement really stood out in my mind. I was doing random "googles" and found one writer that said, "Why go through all the trouble? Why take a risk with your relationship? If a couple is so securely in love and happy with each other, why do you need anything or anyone else? Maybe it's because it's the "vogue" thing to do or just cause they are looking for an excuse to cheat safely cause they don't have the balls to admit they made a mistake in their choice of partner."

This writer really got me thinking, first off for someone to opine on something they obviously have not participated in, is ignorant. It is the equivalent of say, a straight person ranting off on why someone is or shouldn't be gay. But even further. Why are we life-stylers? Duncan and I have discussed this many a time. The most important thing in a relationship is love and friendship, and since we have a child, parenting has become a part of that dimension. Duncan is a college friend, my soul-mate, he is my best-friend, confidant, business partner, lover, father of my child and everything to me. We have fun whether it's a night out on the town, a party, a couch-potato night, or playing with jr. We're very much a part of each other and yes we are very much in love. So I guess we fit the first part of the before mentioned writer's stereotype. Duncan's heart is mine as mine is his, so therefore, yes there is security in our relationship. We have put a line between love and sex. You can have love with or without sex, and you can have sex with or without love. Plain and simple,

"Why are we life-stylers" That answer is simple, we are life-stylers because we refuse to live by archaic conventions that don't relate to the stirrings we have inside. We are pleasure hounds, nymphomaniacs. The human body is a work of art and comes in all shapes and sizes, it is something beautiful to be admired. I love women. I love the way they feel, look, smell and taste. Is it the vogue thing to do? Don't think so...otherwise we wouldn't have to be so "secretive" half the time. Is it an excuse to cheat...Hell no...Just cause we're life-stylers we still have rules and boundaries, and trust me, if either of us crossed them there would be hell to pay. So why go through the trouble?


BECAUSE WE WANT TO AND WE CAN!

The Power of Sexual Energy

It absolutely amazes me. Sexual energy is such a powerful force. You could be having one of the worst days in the world, but then this little thought will just creep into the corner of your mind. It doesn't try to occupy too much space at first...but it's there all the same. Sliding around in the background, hanging right on the edge of your concious thought. It tiptoes across the line every now and then, sometimes at the worst possible moment, but then it slips right back into the shadows. I'm sure you know what I mean. It will sit there and taunt you, all day long. Jumping back and forth like an annoying little bully. But it's not really that annoying, Some how it just makes the day a little more tolerable.

It continues on with it's little playground game as the day goes on, torturing you and building. Building that feeling, you know the one that I mean. That want, that desire, that pure moment of thoughtless bliss. That moment when nothing else matters and you can forget any issue no matter the degree.

It eventually works it's way more into the light. still lingering to the side, but starting to over shadow the negative. It makes you realize that there is only one way to get over this day, and now you start to anticipate. The feeling builds, every move you make starts to make the energy just grow. The anticipation becomes almost painful, to the point that you can't contain it anymore. You need it, you want it, you have to have it right now. The only release, the only thing that is going to make you move into your best state of mind is...yes you guessed it. A good fuck.

Long Time

Here is the deal.....Life always has a tendency to get in the way..We run our own design studio and get real busy all of a sudden. Now this is not to say we haven't been having fun. We just haven't had the time to post.

Our goals are to post as often as possible some times it may be more then you can keep up with and other times you will see nothing for weeks.

Sex is the subject matter and our adventures will be part of it, we tend to frequent parties and we not shy to participate if were in the mood. We are also thinking of writing reviews of various types. You never know what toy might blow Siobhan's mind and she may want to share her "findings" with all of you. I might want to review some of the flicks that I have a tendency to watch yes I am a dirty man I know.

So stay tuned over the next few days for some hot stories that we will be digging up from the past few months.

If there are topics of interest or questions you desire to know the answer to just ask and we'll do our best to answer them.

-D

Welcome to our house of Glass

Nakedness, sex, sexy play, fun....... all very wonderful things. And all very much a part of what will be the House of Glass. Mr. Glass has been bugging me for a while now to start a blog. So here it is....our house of glass. A peek into our world of hedonistic fun, thoughts, acts, playtime and such.

I know this is a lame little first post but I just wanted to get this going. Not to worry...They'll be posts of our all our little adventures and thoughts here soon enough.

XOXO

Siobhan